<p><strong>CHAPTER 9: BECOMING MYSELF</strong></p><p><br/></p><p>Time flies. Time waited for no one </p><p><br/></p><p>The boy who arrived in Kashere, frightened, slowly disappeared.</p><p><br/></p><p>Stood in his place a different being.</p><p><br/></p><p>Someone stronger.</p><p><br/></p><p>The university changed me in many ways I never imagined.</p><p><br/></p><p>University taught me how to survive when the resources are limited.</p><p><br/></p><p>It taught me to appreciate genuine people.</p><p><br/></p><p>It taught me that family is not determined by blood.</p><p><br/></p><p> Sometimes, family are those who stood by you when the going gets tough.</p><p><br/></p><p>Every semester came with its own challenges.</p><p><br/></p><p>Assignments would become <a class="tc-blue external-link external-link" href="https://difficult.Examinations" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">difficult.Examinations </a> became more demanding.</p><p><br/></p><p>There were days I felt like to give up</p><p><br/></p><p>Days I questioned myself if I had made the right decision.</p><p><br/></p><p>Days I wondered if I was truly good enough.</p><p><br/></p><p>But every obstacle reminded me why l left Ogbomoso.</p><p><br/></p><p>I remembered Àdùní</p><p><br/></p><p>I remembered how hot water was sliding down her cheeks the morning I left Ogbomoso.</p><p><br/></p><p>Giving up was a no go area for me.</p><p><br/></p><p>It was never an option.</p><p><br/></p><p>Slowly, I began to discover myself beyond the classroom.</p><p><br/></p><p>My confidence grew and found my voice.</p><p><br/></p><p>I realised that education was not only about passing examinations.</p><p><br/></p><p>It was about becoming a better version of oneself</p><p><br/></p><p>Flashing back, I smile and appreciate God whenever I remember John, who welcomed a stranger into his room without expecting anything in return.</p><p><br/></p><p>Tepasay and Joy who treated me like a brother from the very first day.</p><p><br/></p><p>I remember Gift and his family, who took me as their own and gave me another home whenever I needed one.</p><p><br/></p><p>I remember every member of School Bloodies, who made university life colourful.</p><p><br/></p><p>And then there was Gloria.</p><p><br/></p><p>She walked into my life and left a foot print that can never be erased, even If things go south( God forbid)</p><p><br/></p><p>As I came to the end of the journey, I realised something.</p><p><br/></p><p>The greatest achievement of my university journey was not merely reaching the finish line.</p><p><br/></p><p>It was the person I had become along the way.</p><p><br/></p><p>The boy who once doubted his future had grown into a man who believed that hope, faith, and perseverance could overcome even the trial and darkest seasons.</p><p><br/></p><p>Kashere did not simply give me a degree.</p><p><br/></p><p>It gave me a new version of myself.</p><p><br/></p><p>Also, somewhere along the journey, I discovered another part of myself.</p><p><br/></p><p><strong>WRITING</strong> </p><p><br/></p><p>Words became my voice.</p><p><br/></p><p>Whenever life became overwhelming, I wrote.</p><p><br/></p><p>In fact most of my experiences are in words. </p><p><br/></p><p>Through words, I had preserved a ton of memories.</p><p><br/></p><p>Gradually what started as a quiet passion grew into purpose.</p><p><br/></p><p>I joined literary community and creative club on campus, where I met fellow writers who challenged me to improve my craft.</p><p><br/></p><p>I wrote to correct vices among students. To expose decadence and shenanigans in student associations on the campus</p><p><br/></p><p>I hid behind a pseudo name and sometimes I revealed my identity, depending on the weight of my writing.</p><p><br/></p><p>From there, my writings began to receive recognition and I was nominated for four different awards.</p><p>I was nominated as the Writer of the Year, Student Activist of the Year, Poet of the Year.</p><p><br/></p><p>Being nominated alone was an honour to me.</p><p><br/></p><p>It reminded me of everything about my journey.</p><p><br/></p><p>From the young barber apprentice who didn't know if he would ever attend a university.</p><p><br/></p><p>Then the journey approached another milestone when I won the NASELS Writer of the Year.</p><p><br/></p><p>Standing there to receive the award, I was overwhelmed with gratitude.</p><p><br/></p><p>My mind went back to Ogbomoso again.</p><p><br/></p><p>To Àdùní and the sacrifices she made</p><p><br/></p><p>To the barber's shop where I once stood to learn.</p><p><br/></p><p>To the countless moments of uncertainty.</p><p><br/></p><p>The images claimed my eyes.</p><p><br/></p><p>My mind was engulfed and I started shivering.</p><p><br/></p><p>At that moment, I realised that delay is not a denial.</p><p><br/></p><p>And perhaps, all those years, life had not been saying “No.”</p><p><br/></p><p>It had simply been saying:</p><p><br/></p><p>“Not yet.”</p><p><br/></p><p>TO BE CONTINUED…..</p><p><br/></p><p>@Àdùní </p><p><br/></p>