<p>Once upon a time, son,</p><p>they used to laugh with their hearts</p><p>and laugh with their eyes:</p><p>but now they only laugh with their teeth,</p><p>while their ice-block-cold eyes</p><p>search behind my shadow.</p><p><br/></p><p>There was a time indeed</p><p>they used to shake hands with their hearts:</p><p>but thatâs gone, son.</p><p>Now they shake hands without hearts</p><p>while their left hands search</p><p>my empty pockets.</p><p><br/></p><p>âFeel at home!â âCome againâ:</p><p>they say, and when I come</p><p>again and feel</p><p>at home, once, twice,</p><p>there will be no thrice â</p><p>for then I find doors shut on me.</p><p><br/></p><p>So I have learned many things, son.</p><p>I have learned to wear many faces</p><p>like dresses â homeface,</p><p>officeface, streetface, hostface,</p><p>cocktailface, with all their conforming smiles</p><p>like a fixed portrait smile.</p><p><br/></p><p>And I have learned too</p><p>to laugh with only my teeth</p><p>and shake hands without my heart.</p><p>I have also learned to say, âGoodbyeâ,</p><p>when I mean âGood-riddanceâ;</p><p>to say âGlad to meet youâ,</p><p>without being glad; and to say âItâs been</p><p>nice talking to youâ, after being bored.</p><p><br/></p><p>But believe me, son.</p><p>I want to be what I used to be</p><p>when I was like you. I want</p><p>to unlearn all these muting things.</p><p>Most of all, I want to relearn</p><p>how to laugh, for my laugh in the mirror</p><p>shows only my teeth like a snakeâs bare fangs!</p><p><br/></p><p>So show me, son,</p><p>how to laugh; show me how</p><p>I used to laugh and smile</p><p>once upon a time when I was like you.</p><br/><blockquote><strong>PS: This is Once upon a Time by Gabriel Okara.....</strong></blockquote><p>I came across it and had deep thoughts about it.</p><p><br/></p><blockquote>The transition from the innocence of a child to the pretense in the adulthood questions the word "maturity"</blockquote><blockquote>What if what we call âmaturityâ is in a way learned dishonesty?</blockquote><blockquote><img alt="" src="/media/inline_insight_image/Screenshot_20260204-194649.jpg"/></blockquote><blockquote>Share your thoughts...</blockquote>
At the end of the month, we give out prizes in 3 categories: Best Content, Top Engagers and
Most Engaged Content.
Best Content
Top Engagers
Most Engaged Content
Best Content
We give out cash prizes to between 7 and 20 community members with the best insights in the past month.
The winners are picked by an in-house selection process.
The winners are NOT picked from the leaderboards/rankings, we choose winners based on the quality, originality
and insightfulness of their content.
Here are a few other things to know for the Best Content track
1
Quality over Quantity — You stand a higher chance of winning by publishing a few really good insights across the entire month,
rather than a lot of low-quality, spammy posts.
2
Share original, authentic, and engaging content that clearly reflects your voice, thoughts, and opinions.
3
Avoid using AI to generate contentâuse it instead to correct grammar, improve flow, enhance structure, and boost clarity.
4
Explore audio contentâhigh-quality audio insights can significantly boost your chances of standing out.
5
Use eye-catching cover imagesâif your content doesn't attract attention, it's less likely to be read or engaged with.
6
Share your content in your social circles to build engagement around it.
Top Engagers
For the Top Engagers Track, we award the top 3 people who engage the most with other user's content via
comments.
The winners are picked using the "Top Monthly Engagers" tab on the rankings page.
Most Engaged Content
The Most Engaged Content recognizes users whose content received the most engagement during the month.
We pick the top 3.
The winners are picked using the "Top Monthly Contributors" tab on the rankings page.
Contributor Rankings
The Rankings/Leaderboard shows the Top 20 contributors and engagers on TwoCents a monthly and all-time basis
— as well as the most active colleges (users attending/that attended those colleges)
The all-time contributors ranking is based on the Contributor Score, which is a measure of all the engagement and exposure a contributor's content receives.
The monthly contributors ranking tracks performance of a user's insights for the current month. The monthly and all-time scores are calcuated DIFFERENTLY.
This page also shows the top engagers on an all-time & monthly basis.
Below is a list of badges on TwoCents and their designations.
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