I THOUGHT I KNEW EVERYTHING AT 20

You'll think you know marriage until you find out he doesn't flush the toilet Calm down, my own husband sha dey flush toilet 😂 But the point is.... at 20 I could easily fantasize about what I thought marriage would be.Now I'm 28 and it's not like that at all. Told myself I'd have an elite family and a smart baby and my baby isn't not smart (if that even makes sense), but tell me why this tiny human decided to put biscuit inside my washing machine 🤦🏼‍♀️. Maybe that's why they call them kids... Cuz they're as stubborn as goats I don vex break phone repair am the next day before....But am I supposed to put my toddler inside rice and start over?You see it's actually complicated 😂😂😂 I owe my mother an apology for saying she kept acting like parenthood was a big dealIt's a big deal o 😭 Everyday is a race for protecting my child from unaliving herself 😭. Are babies suicidal or they just don't know consequences exist When I got married I thought I knew it allThere was so much I thought I knew at twenty that I realised as time went by , I actually didn't know. First is "marry your best friend".I genuinely thought they were saying that just so that you'll have fun in your marriage 😭😭Omo marry your best friend ooo Marriage will frustrate you. Maybe not all the time. But there are days when you'll want to feel unmarried because it gets overwhelmingBut marrying your best friend makes it less soIt makes it easier to forgive each others flawsIt makes it easier to enjoy each otherMakes it easier to still find deep love in the most ordinary days. And that's the beauty of marrying your best friend. There are days when I don't want my husband. I want my best friend Second thing....I thought being married meant spending every second togetherIn the kitchen, in the bathroom, bedroom, EVERYWHERE!I didn't even realise how much I hated having company in the kitchen until I got married 😭Yes we spend time together, but at least 48% of the time we'd be doing our own thingBut that's just part of marriage I won't lie at the beginning I nearly thought my marriage was defective But it's just how our marriage works. Three, I thought motherhood couldn't be as bad as they painted it to be. It's badIt's that bad!My daughter just turned three and I won't lie the last three years have been very overwhelming.I always thought female children were easier to raise than boysFAT LIEMy daughter climbs anything and everythingI feel like I'm not even allowed to blink If she's not falling inside water, she's trying to enter washing machine, or falling something, or trying to put her hand inside socketAt some point we had to baby proof the house but I don't this she understands warning signs just yetMini me has no boundariesThe expectation was cuteness and matching outfits and having her love me more than anything but apparently I'm just the food lady and dada is the original parent.It is well I think I should stop here for now Also since this is my first post , I guess I should introduce myself I'm Jemima, and I'm an expert in surviving toddler chaos 🥰❤️.Please follow and like and leave your comments tooWould you like to see more of these?? Thank you 🤭 And yes my photo is AI generated. Make Una no vex o 😂

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