Love

So yeah I know we all have heard about love so many times 

Yes...

But I feel like sharing my take on it

Just flow along with me 😜

You know I'll say love works everywhere 

In schools, markets, even in homes 

If there's no love I don't think nothing good can come out from relating with people 

Love is one of the most beautiful things we can experience.

But I think we should take it to be selfless

If you are selfish, tell me

How do you want to practice love? Ehn? 😔🙃

Many people think love is all about receiving, but I have come to realize that real love is more about giving than taking.

The selflessness of love is shown when you choose someone else's peace over your own comfort

Yes this particular point really hit hard....🔥💯

What do we mean choosing someone's peace more than your own comfort?

Ok now, let's  give a sample

You're with a friend and you know this one doesn't have much 

And it's looking like he doesn't even have what to eat at that moment 

But here you are 

You still have what to manage, you can consider sharing that together just for that period.

That's what we can LOVE

Now, I have another sample to give 😊

You have a friend he's sick and you know he's on the hospital or clinic 

And it happens there's no one there to stay with him and all that.....🥺

Now, it's now coincide with you having something you want to work on, it's also very important 

As a good friend, you'd have to leave that important that's might even be related to school stuff for that your guy in tn clinic to stay there with him 

That's what we call LOVE

When you forgive even though you're hurting, and when you stand by people during their difficult moments without expecting anything in return. 

I have learned that love is not measured by expensive gifts or sweet words alone. 

In today's world, many relationships are built on conditions. People love only when it benefits them. 

For example, this particular example is very rampant presently 

As a girl or lady, telling a guy if we have to be dating, are you ready to be feeding me? Can you afford this, can you afford that?

Like it's irritating for real

Can we call that love?

So now because I like you and I approach you I'll have to be one feeding you, getting everything you want

Like OMG 🤦 

True love goes beyond personal gain. It remains patient, kind, and faithful even when there is nothing to gain.

Omo, I think this discussion is getting too long 😊

I'll like to have your take on this matter.....

But, in my conclusion

I believe that the strongest love is not the one that asks, "What can I get?" but the one that quietly asks, "What can I give?"