A MAN’S MONEY IS NOT AUTOMATICALLY HIS WOMAN’S MONEY JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE DATING. 

Let's avoid the word beggars for now, let's be sincere with eachother.

To find a girl that has eaten, it's a miracle actually.

But let's dive in as i bring in my own perspective 🌚🌚🌚.

Oya,let’s have an uncomfortable conversation.

Dating a man does not automatically make you a joint owner of everything he earns.

If he pays your bills, buys you gifts, takes you out and supports you, that should be appreciated as what he chooses to give, not treated as a salary you are entitled to.

A man can love a woman deeply and still have financial boundaries.

He can say:

“I can’t afford that.”

“That’s not in my budget.”

“I’m not paying for that.”

And none of those statements automatically make him stingy.

The word stingy self seems somehow cause he works for the money 🥱

The problem starts when generosity becomes an obligation.

Some men start relationships by giving freely because they want to impress the woman they love. After a while, the woman becomes accustomed to the lifestyle.

Then the moment the man reduces his spending, she starts asking:

“What happened to you?”

“You have changed.”

“Are you seeing another woman?”

But maybe he simply realized that being generous doesn’t mean being financially irresponsible.

And women should also have their own financial independence.

A healthy relationship should not be:

“Your money is our money, but my money is my money.” 👀

Both partners should be able to contribute according to their circumstances, communicate about money and respect each other’s boundaries.

A man’s wallet should never be the measure of his love.

And ladies, before you drag me 😂: I'm single,so don't think of using my partner as example 😂😂

If a man stopped paying for everything tomorrow, would you still consider him a good partner? 👇🏽🔥