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Your in love with their body, not their soul
<p>What exactly is love? Do we really understand what it means to love, especially romantically? Even platonically, many of us struggle with it. We can’t always be there for a friend on their worst days, sacrifice our time when they need us, or even remember the little things that matter to them. Yet romantically, we are so quick to call something love.</p><p>We can speak to someone for two weeks, feel attracted to them, share some vulnerability, and suddenly believe we are in love. But is that really enough time to understand someone beyond the surface? To know their heart, their fears, their values, their thought process, and the things they don’t easily show people?</p><p>Sometimes, what we call love is actually lust, attraction, excitement, or simply the comfort of having someone around.</p><p>Why rush to give someone access to the most intimate parts of you before you’ve truly had the chance to know each other? Why not build the emotional connection first? Let them know your mind, your heart, your values, and who you are beyond physical attraction.</p><p>There is nothing wrong with moving slowly. Take your time, build something strong enough that, when you eventually ask yourself, “Is this person worth committing to?”, you are making that decision based on truly knowing them—not simply on how they make you feel in the moment.</p><p>Sometimes, the deepest connections are the ones we allow to grow.</p>

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