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Funny, How That Works
<p style="text-align: justify; "><img src="/media/inline_insight_image/356542.jpg" style="background-color: transparent;"/><strong>When Your Father Is Your Bully</strong></p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Bullying is never a good thing.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Some people grow out of it. Some grow older and carry it with them. And some fathers somehow turn teasing their children into a language of their own.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">He picks on you whenever he gets the chance.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Your hair.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Your clothes.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Your mistakes.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The way you speak.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">That one embarrassing thing you did years ago that he somehow still remembers.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You tell him to stop.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">He laughs.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You get angry.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">He laughs even more.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Sometimes you wonder if he knows how annoying he is.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">But then something happens.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You need something, and somehow he's already there.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You fail at something, and he's the first person asking what happened.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Someone else makes fun of you, and suddenly the joke isn't funny anymore.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">He can spend an entire evening making you wish he'd leave you alone, then spend the next morning worrying about whether you've eaten.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">It's a strange kind of relationship.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You can be angry with him and still look for him in a crowded room.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You can complain about him to everyone and still become strangely defensive when someone else does the same.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You can grow tired of his jokes without ever becoming tired of having him around.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Maybe that's the part nobody tells you about growing up.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">One day, you begin to notice that behind all the teasing, there are little things.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The extra food left for you.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The call asking where you are.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The money he pretends wasn't a sacrifice.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The quiet way he checks whether you're okay without actually asking.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">And suddenly, some of the things you once found irritating begin to look different.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Not necessarily better.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Just different.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Because perhaps a father's love isn't always delivered in the language we expect.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Sometimes it arrives as advice.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Sometimes as silence.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Sometimes as sacrifice.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">And sometimes, inexplicably, as a joke you have heard a hundred times.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You laugh because you've heard it before.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">He laughs because he knows you will.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">And somewhere between the two of you, there is a kind of understanding neither of you ever really talks about.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Until one day, you realize the house is quieter than it used to be.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">And you catch yourself missing the voice that used to annoy you so much.</p>
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