<p><br/></p><p>Yeah.</p><p>You read that right.</p><p>I've finally found my own man on Two Cents. 😂</p><p>And before anybody starts typing,</p><p>“Bolu, congratulations o!” or "Tifeh, congratulations!"</p><p>Thank you.</p><p>Thank you.</p><p>I have accepted your congratulations in advance. 😭</p><p>Yes, I've been gone for a while.</p><p>But what can I say?</p><p>Love happened.</p><p>And when love happens to a woman, sometimes you don't have time for anything else.</p><p>No insight.</p><p>No random midnight thoughts.</p><p>No “let me just write this thing that entered my head.”</p><p>Nothing.</p><p>Just you, your man, and the unreasonable amount of happiness occupying your brain.</p><p>Don't worry.</p><p>E go soon reach your turn.</p><p>You will understand what I'm saying. 😂</p><p>I've just been here, figuring things out with my man.</p><p>And honestly?</p><p>I think I owe you people the story.</p><p>After all, I'm a girlies' girl.</p><p>If I find something good, I cannot be selfish with it.</p><p>Maybe somebody reading this will meet her own man too.</p><p>Maybe Yahweh's Delight will finally stop crushing from a safe distance. 😂</p><p>Maybe Esther and Israel will take that newly introduced DM feature from “just a feature” to something we will all be hearing about soon<em> (I come in peace, please o✋🙂↔️🤚)</em>👀</p><p>Or maybe,</p><p>just maybe,</p><p>your own man has been here all along.</p><p>Reading.</p><p>Liking.</p><p>Commenting.</p><p>Watching your posts.</p><p>And you've been there writing “Thank you for engaging” to the love of your life without knowing it the same way mine happened</p><p>😭</p><p>But let me tell you something about mine.</p><p>This man?</p><p>He listens.</p><p>Even when I ramble.</p><p>Even when my thoughts come in pieces.</p><p>He doesn't tell me I'm doing too much.</p><p>He simply gives me room.</p><p>He has seen my confused thoughts become sentences.</p><p>He has watched terrible drafts become good ones.</p><p>He has stayed through the days when I had absolutely nothing to say.</p><p>And somehow, whenever I thought I had lost my voice,</p><p>he reminded me that I still had something worth saying.</p><p>He's patient too.</p><p>Very patient.</p><p>Because trust me,</p><p>I can be dramatic.</p><p>I can change my mind seventeen times before settling on one sentence.</p><p>I can say,</p><p>“I don't like this.”</p><p>Then come back five minutes later and say,</p><p>“Actually… let's try something completely different.”</p><p>And somehow,</p><p>he stays.</p><p>😂</p><p>He has introduced me to people I probably would never have met.</p><p>Made me laugh at 2 a.m.</p><p>Made me question things I thought I understood.</p><p>Made me read perspectives different from mine.</p><p>And sometimes,</p><p>he has annoyed me terribly.</p><p>But I always come back.</p><p>Because that's the thing about a good relationship.</p><p>It doesn't have to be perfect.</p><p>It just has to keep giving you reasons to stay.</p><p>And mine?</p><p>Mine has given me plenty.</p><p>So yes,</p><p>after disappearing for weeks,</p><p>I finally came back with something worth announcing.</p><p>I found my man on Two Cents.</p><p>And honestly…</p><p>I think I might be keeping him.</p><p>But since you people are already too curious for your own good😹</p><p>if you actually want me to tell you how I met him,</p><p>drop it in the comments, you guys will decide if there will be a Part 2.</p><p>I'll gladly tell you.</p><p>Joyfully, sef. 😂</p><p>After all…</p><p>a girl should be able to tell her love story.</p><p>Right?</p>