True
Score | 234
In Nigeria • 3 min read •
I THOUGHT I WAS JUST LISTENING. I DIDN’T KNOW I WAS NEXT. πŸ‡³πŸ‡¬πŸŒ
<p><br/></p><p>Around December last year, if I remember correctly, I was sitting alone in my classroom at the University of Ilorin, listening to music on Spotify.</p><p><br/></p><p>Then I came across a podcast by the Knowles Educational and Charitable Trust for International Leadership (KECTIL) titled <strong>"Shocking Truths About Nigeria’s Kidnapping Industry,”</strong> hosted by Indian social entrepreneur, and public speaker:Β <strong style="background-color: transparent;">Ashwathy Venugopal</strong></p><p><br/></p><p>The conversation featured Malik Abubakar Mujeli from Kebbi State, an Economics graduate of Al Hikmah University, and Oludipe Taiwo Oyindamola, a political science graduate of Ekiti State University who were there as representatives of Nigerian youth.</p><p><br/></p><p>I didn’t know either of them personally.</p><p>I was simply listening, and I remember thinking:</p><blockquote>β€œWow, these people are really doing something”</blockquote><p><br/></p><p>They were talking about insecurity, kidnapping, and banditry and how these things affect young people's education, businesses, families, safety, and everyday lives.</p><p><br/></p><p>But what stayed with me was something else.</p><p>I was sitting in a classroom, listening to young Nigerians take our stories into a global conversation.</p><p>I thought:</p><blockquote>β€œWhoever comes next must have one hell of a story to tell.” 😭</blockquote><p>I never imagined it would be me.</p><p>I went back to my own life.</p><p><br/></p><p>Writing.</p><p>Advocacy, etc.</p><p>Trying to figure things out.</p><p><br/></p><p>No strategy.</p><p>No connection.</p><p>Just showing up and doing what I could.</p><p><br/></p><p>Then, two days ago, an email arrived.</p><p>I opened it.</p><p><img alt="" src="/media/inline_insight_image/1223.jpg"/></p><blockquote>β€œYou have been selected for an interview for the <strong>2026 Kectil Born to LeadΒ  Campaign</strong>.”</blockquote><p>I checked the email again.</p><p>I even went back to Spotify to listen to the podcast again like,</p><blockquote>Oh… is this oneπŸ˜‚</blockquote><p><br/></p><p>What makes this even more special is the timing.</p><p>KECTIL is celebrating its 10th anniversary this year.</p><p>A year ago, I was discovering their work. Today, I’m being invited to be part of the conversation.</p><p>Life really has a funny way of connecting the dots. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜­πŸ‡³πŸ‡¬</p><p><br/></p><p>In the coming days, I’ll be in touch with Mr. Hein Htet Oo (Ray), Deputy Country Director of the USA for the Global Youth Parliament and Campaign Lead for KECTIL.</p><p>I’ll share my journey, the work I’ve been doing, and some of the realities, dreams and possibilities I see among young people in Nigeria.</p><p><br/></p><p>By September 18, a video of me travelling from my classroom at the University of Ilorin to a global conversation with young people across developing countries.</p><p><br/></p><p>But honestly, this post isn't really about me getting an interview.</p><p>It is about the young person who is currently where I was.</p><p><br/></p><p>Watching.</p><p>Learning.</p><p>Trying and wondering when their own opportunity will come.</p><p><br/></p><p>If that is you, please keep going.</p><p>And please learn to be happy when someone around you moves forward.</p><p><br/></p><p>Support people.</p><p>Learn from people.</p><p>Work with people.</p><p>Celebrate people.</p><p><br/></p><p>Someone else's opportunity does not cancel yours.</p><p>I listened to Malik and Taiwo. I admired what they were doing. I learned from them without even knowing them.</p><p>And today, I have the opportunity to continue that conversation.</p><p><br/></p><p>There are so many young Nigerians with stories.</p><p>People with brilliant ideas. People with talent. People quietly solving problems in their communities without anyone noticing.</p><p><br/></p><p>Sometimes, they don't even need much.</p><p>An opportunity.</p><p>A little resource.</p><p>A platform.</p><p>A sponsorβ€”I need one too, please πŸ˜­πŸ™πŸ½.</p><p>But most importantly, someone willing to listen.</p><p><br/></p><p>You never really know what someone can become when they finally get the chance to be seen.</p><p>That’s why I want to keep creating spaces for young people to share their stories.</p><p><br/></p><p>If you’re one of them, I’d love to hear from you:</p><p>What are you building?</p><p>What are you struggling with?</p><p>What kind of support do you need?</p><p>What story do you wish more people would hear?</p><p><br/></p><p>You don’t need to have everything figured out.</p><p>Just keep going.</p><p>One step at a time.</p><p><br/></p><p>Last year, I was sitting in a classroom, listening to someone else’s story.</p><p>I didn’t know I was quietly making my way into the next chapter.</p><p>Maybe yours is closer than you think. πŸ‡³πŸ‡¬</p><p><br/></p><p>To Malik and Taiwo:</p><p>Thank you for carrying the Nigerian flag before I ever imagined carrying it. πŸ‡³πŸ‡¬</p><p><br/></p><p>And to other young Nigerian still trying to find their way:</p><p>I see you.</p><p>Keep showing up.</p><p>Your story may be further along than you think.</p><p><br/></p><p>Alhamdulillah. 🀲🏽</p><p>This is only the beginning.Β πŸš€πŸ‡³πŸ‡¬πŸ™</p><p><br/></p><p>P.S. Don't forget to tip me for Sunday. πŸ˜‚πŸ™πŸ½</p><p><br/></p><p>I added a short clip from the interview here.Β </p><p>If you want to hear the full conversation that I listened to back then:</p><p>πŸ‘‰πŸ½ <a class="tc-blue external-link external-link external-link external-link external-link external-link external-link external-link external-link" href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/6j4qLixRLF3271fOZ5H1WG" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">open.spotify.com/episode/6j4qLixRLF32... </a></p><p>Listen to Malik and Taiwo.Β </p><p>You never know what one conversation might leave with you. β€οΈπŸ‡³πŸ‡¬</p><p><br/><br/></p>
insight image
I THOUGHT I WAS JUST LISTENING. I DIDN’T KNOW I...
By 𝑫'𝒙π‘ͺ𝑬𝑳𝑳𝑬𝑡𝑻 β„’ ✍️πŸ₯‡
0:00 / 0:00

|
Support me with a small tip. It helps me keep creating stories that inform, inspire, and make an impact.

Other insights from 𝑫'𝒙π‘ͺ𝑬𝑳𝑳𝑬𝑡𝑻 β„’ ✍️πŸ₯‡

Contributor Points

Points-to-Coupons

Referral Earning


Insights for you.
What is TwoCents? ×