Talking about trust today 

I’ll be using myself as an example 

I believe trust is a very big thing 

Something people earn, something people grow to gain

But trust isn’t as small as it looks or sounds 

Trust is when you can give a part of you to someone or something without being scared of being broken 

Just is when you can let go without knowing what knowing what happens next 

Trust is being an to take risks 

About 3 years ago I reached a stage in my life where I trusted nobody 

To the extent that when I was in a room I’ll make sure I was standing at the corner of the room so nobody would stand behind me 

I couldn’t even hold hands with people 

This didn’t happen overnight 

It was the result of giving people chances over and over again 

Trusting the process and it keeps failing till you just decide to trust just yourself 

Yes it hurt people around me 

I’d flinch at the slightest movement 

I would always decide to do my things alone

And it hurts them because I kept pulling away 

But later on I grew 

I grew to understand that 

People are not the same 

Someone hurts you doesn’t mean everybody would 

Yes you might get hurt over and over again but you would grow, learn and become a better person 

I am presently in my growth stage and to everyone who has lost every reason to try again to trust again 

Let growth be your reason