WHEN PARENTS BECOME STRANGERS

A Coded Lullaby 1. Ah-ah-ah, my little child, Sleep while the night is soft and mild. Who'll hear your heart when the world grows wild? Meaning: The lullaby begins with comfort, but beneath its gentle sound lies a child's need for someone who will listen. 2. Hush-a-hush, don't cry tonight, Mummy is busy, Daddy's not in sight. Your little tears disappear from sight. Meaning: A child may learn to hide their sadness when the people they depend on are too occupied to notice. 3. Hmm-mm-hmm, the walls stand near, They hold the words nobody hears. They keep the secrets of childhood tears. Meaning: The home becomes a silent witness to pain that goes unnoticed by the family. 4. La-la-la, the table is set, We share the food, but not regret. So many words remain unsaid yet. Meaning: A family can sit together every day while emotional distance quietly grows. 5. Shh-shh-shh, my little one, Don't ask why the talking's done. Just close your eyes till morning comes. Meaning: When children are repeatedly dismissed, they may stop asking questions and begin to mistake silence for normal family life. 6. Mm-mm-mm, don't hide your face, Your heart deserves a listening place. Your tears should never beg for space. Meaning: Every child deserves to express their feelings without fearing rejection or being treated as a burden. 7. Oh-oh-oh, your father provides, Yet loneliness sleeps by your side. Some needs cannot be bought or supplied. Meaning: Financial provision is important, but affection, attention, and emotional support cannot be replaced with money. 8. Ah-ah-ah, your mother cares, But who will listen to your silent prayers? Who'll notice the weight your small heart bears? Meaning: Parents may love their children sincerely and still fail to recognise the emotional struggles those children carry. 9. La-la-la, the years take flight, Small hands grow, then leave your sight. Yesterday's child walks out tonight. Meaning: Childhood passes quickly. The opportunity to build trust and closeness should not be postponed until the child is grown. 10. Hush-a-hush, the room grows cold, The child grows quiet, the story grows old. A heart once open begins to close. Meaning: Repeated emotional neglect can teach a child to protect themselves by withdrawing from the very people they once longed to reach. 11. Hmm-mm-hmm, the door swings wide, The grown child visits, then leaves with the tide. Old conversations have nowhere to hide. Meaning: Physical visits may continue even when emotional closeness has faded. The family is still connected by blood, but no longer by the same trust. 12. Oh-oh-oh, there's time today, Put down the phone; hear what they say. A little attention can light their way. Meaning: Parents can still make a difference by listening sincerely, making time, and showing interest in their children's inner lives. 13. La-la-la, let warm arms speak, Give comfort to the hearts that feel weak. Make love a home where truth can speak. Meaning: Healing begins when children feel safe enough to speak honestly and parents respond with patience rather than judgment. 14. Ah-ah-ah, remember this song, A house can stand while hearts go wrong. Don't raise a stranger where love belongs. Meaning: The final warning is that raising a child involves more than providing shelter. Without emotional connection, parents risk becoming strangers to the children they love. Final refrain Rock the cradle, sing the song, Be there when your child feels wrong. For a child may outgrow your home, But never forget how you made them feel at home.

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