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Glory Afolabi: Glowing Indite Nigeria Writer & Poet @ Adekunle Ajasin University Akungba Akoko Ondo state
In People and Society • 2 min read •
Loneliness of Busyness (2)

In the first part, I asked a lot of questions about busyness, what it takes from us and what it quietly hides.


Those questions didn't come from nowhere.

They came from me.


There are days I genuinely love being busy.


Not because I'm overwhelmed, but because I enjoy having something to do. I throw myself into tasks until everything else fades into the background. I just want to get things done.


Then the excitement wears off.


I pause.

Sometimes, I stop out of frustration.

"Why can't I seem to figure this out?"


I try to connect the dots, but eventually I give up.

Well... not completely.


I only step away for a while, knowing that sooner or later, I'll return.


But in those quiet moments, I begin to notice what my busyness has been covering.


I reach for my phone.

I think of friends.

I think of family.

I want to talk. I want to laugh. I want to reconnect.


But somehow, I don't know where to begin.

Maybe they've grown used to hearing, "I've been busy."

Maybe after hearing it enough times, they stopped asking.


I can't really blame them.

The harder part is realizing that I've also become a stranger to the conversations I once longed for.


And somewhere between chasing purpose and completing tasks, the loneliness of busyness caught up with me.

It wrapped itself around me so gently that I didn't notice it at first.


Until one day, I realized that being occupied isn't the same as being connected.


Perhaps busyness isn't always the problem.

Sometimes, it's the place we hide.


In Part 3, we'll talk about finding our way back, to ourselves, to the people we love, and to the life we don't want to miss.


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