*Must I Change Just Because I’m on Campus?* 😅😂

Let’s talk about BEING YOU. 🥰

There are times you choose to be yourself—humble, simple and modest—and people will still criticize you just for being simple. 😅

I remember one time I threaded my hair (Kiko), and a departmental mate was wondering why I should be making such a simple and “classless” hair while already on campus. 😂

She was like, “ _Girl, this is a university! Your hair is long, you should do braids or something more captivating and stunning_ _You’re on campus o!”_ 😭

Me: “ _I thought I was in primary school ni?”_ 😭😂

But wait.. What's wrong with me threading my hair on campus? Is it against the school code of conduct? 😂🤲 E wa gbami 😂

Honestly, I love threading, It makes me feel more natural and beautiful 🥰 and it's even easier to loosen. 😅

But beyond the hair, it got me thinking...

This is the problem with many people. They are easily intimidated and influenced by what people say or what everyone else is doing.

The Bible says, “Let no one look down on you…”

Listen to me: *if you don't know what you stand for, you'll fall for anything!*  

Be modest. Be simple. Be classic. ❤️

No one is saying you should now appear like old mama or papa o! 🤣🤣

But please, be careful not to lose yourself just because you want to fit into someone else's definition of what is “classy,” “beautiful,” or “acceptable.”

Be YOU.

So tell me, has anyone ever challenged you for being modest, simple, or just being YOU? 😅👇

I remain👇

JÉSÙLADÉMI ELIZABETH 🥰❣️