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The conversation
<p>Tell me, why are you ashamed?</p><p><br/></p><p>No, no, no, no…</p><p>Tell me why.</p><p><br/></p><p>Come on, talk to me.</p><p><br/></p><p>You dressed too nice?</p><p><br/></p><p>Oh-oh-oh…</p><p><br/></p><p>**YOU DRESSED TOO NICE?!**</p><p><br/></p><p>And?</p><p><br/></p><p>Then flaunt it!</p><p><br/></p><p>Does it mean you look the best?</p><p>Maybe.</p><p><br/></p><p>Does it mean you’re the best dressed?</p><p>Maybe.</p><p><br/></p><p>But does it mean you should hide?</p><p><br/></p><p>**No.**</p><p><br/></p><p>You walked into the room</p><p>and suddenly realized</p><p>you were giving *too much*</p><p>while everyone else was giving *just enough.*</p><p><br/></p><p>And now you’re standing there like,</p><p>“God, where do I put myself?”</p><p><br/></p><p>Ah-ah. 😂</p><p><br/></p><p>My dear,</p><p>you have been hit by the very possible dilemma</p><p>of looking *too good* for the room you entered.</p><p><br/></p><p>And the twist?</p><p><br/></p><p>**You can twist it.**</p><p><br/></p><p>I’m sure you didn’t know that, did you?</p><p><br/></p><p>Fine.</p><p><br/></p><p>So you move on.</p><p><br/></p><p>Move on from the shame.</p><p>Move on from the awkwardness.</p><p>Move on from wondering who is looking.</p><p><br/></p><p>And start bringing out</p><p>the grace and glory of the dress you wore.</p><p><br/></p><p>Adjust your shoulders.</p><p><br/></p><p>Lift your head.</p><p><br/></p><p>Walk.</p><p><br/></p><p>Not arrogantly.</p><p>Not desperately trying to prove anything.</p><p><br/></p><p>Just…</p><p><br/></p><p>**graciously.**</p><p><br/></p><p>Carry yourself with so much majesty</p><p>that the dress begins to look like</p><p>it was always meant for you.</p><p><br/></p><p>Because the moment they sense your fear,</p><p>your embarrassment,</p><p>your humiliation—</p><p><br/></p><p>**that is when shame becomes real.**</p><p><br/></p><p>But if you refuse to shame yourself,</p><p>why should anybody else get the privilege?</p><p><br/></p><p>Some will stare</p><p>and wonder why they didn't do the same.</p><p><br/></p><p>Some will look closely</p><p>and start pointing out flaws.</p><p><br/></p><p>Some will genuinely smile</p><p>and tell you,</p><p>“Girl, you look good!”</p><p><br/></p><p>And some?</p><p><br/></p><p>They won't even care.</p><p><br/></p><p>And that's the beauty of it.</p><p><br/></p><p>**Whatever it is, it's yours.**</p><p><br/></p><p>You wore it.</p><p>You chose it.</p><p>You showed up in it.</p><p><br/></p><p>So wear it well.</p><p><br/></p><p>Walk in it.</p><p><br/></p><p>Own it.</p><p><br/></p><p>Not because everyone thinks you look good—</p><p><br/></p><p>but because you refuse to make yourself feel bad</p><p>simply because you stood out.</p><p><br/></p><p>So chin up, shoulders back.</p><p><br/></p><p>Walk graciously.</p><p><br/></p><p>Walk confidently.</p><p><br/></p><p>And please…</p><p><br/></p><p>**stop apologising for the dress.** 😂</p><p><br/></p><p>You already wore it.</p><p><br/></p><p>Now?</p><p><br/></p><p>**Carry it.**</p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p>What would you do if you overdressed to an event?😂😂</p><p>Anyways anticipate part 2 of The Conversation </p>

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