S: Do you think I'm pretty?
M: I don't have to, it's pretty obvious that you are
S: If you were to rate my beauty on a scale of 1-10, what would it be?
M: A 20 duhh, you're so pretty you broke the scale. I wish to be like you soo much, you're soo damn perfect.
S: Well I have one question to ask you but I need you to promise that you'll tell me the honest truth
M: ...
S: Can I ask?
M: Go ahead I guess
S: Do you think you're pretty?
M: You tell me, I have a funny face shape, my brows are imperfect and my lashes so short they're almost invisible. I have imperfect vision and my ears are elf-like. My head sits on my neck in a very weird way and my arms are too big. My breasts are awfully small and my tummy too big. My legs look like a warrior's and my feet are enormous...

S: I'm going to stop you right there
M: But I wasn't done describing the ball of imperfection that is me.
S: That's because it does not exist
M: You think I'm perfect?, that's ridiculous
S: I never said that, but I do know that you were created in the image of God.
M...
S: I also don't understand how you can call yourself the most perfect girl you've known one minute and an ugly list of untrue characteristics the next.
M: I never called myself perfect.
S: You called ME perfect.
M: That's because you are!!!
S: You really don't know who I am do you?
M: I know you're a beautiful work of art.
S: Other than that?
M: Well we just met so nothing much really.
S: Interesting.
M: What?
S: Nothing.
M: No, tell me.
S: You called me perfect.
M: Because you are.
S: You have known me for less than an hour.
M: And?
S: And you know what I find interesting?
M: What?
S: You have managed to find so many beautiful things about me without asking a single question.
M: Because they're obvious.
S: Yet you needed a whole list to explain why you aren't beautiful.
M: That's different.
S: How?
M: Because I know myself.
S: Do you?
M: Yes.
S: Do you know me?
M: Not really.
S: Tell me something about me.
M: I just told you I don't know you that well.
S: No. Tell me something you know.
M: You're beautiful.
S: That's what you see.
M: Isn't that enough?
S: Apparently not.
M: What is that supposed to mean?
S: You have been looking at me since we met, but you have not once asked why I look familiar.

M: Familiar?
S: My face.
M: What about it?
S: My eyes.
M: What about your eyes?
S: My brows.
M: ...
S: My lashes.
M: Wait.
S: My ears.
M: You're doing that on purpose.
S: My arms.
M: Stop.
S: My hands.
M: I said stop.
S: My legs.
M: They're not yours.
S: Aren't they?
M: No.
S: Then whose are they?
M: I don't know.
S: You do.
M: ...
S: You described every single one of them to me a few minutes ago.
M: That's different.
S: You keep saying that.
M: Because it is.
S: Then why do I have your crooked brows?
M: ...
S: Why do I have your short lashes?
M: ...
S: Why do I have your funny face shape?
M: You're a shadow.
S: Exactly.
M: Shadows don't have faces.
S: Then why have you spent all this time telling me mine is beautiful?
M: I...
S: You have been calling me perfect for the parts of me that are yours.
M: No.
S: You think I have your arms because you think they are beautiful when they belong to me.
M: That's not what I said.
S: You think my stomach is perfect because you have never called it yours.
M: Stop.
S: You think my legs are graceful because you have never described them as a warrior's.
M: Please.
S: You think my body is art because you have spent years convincing yourself that yours is a collection of mistakes.
M: I don't...
S: You do.
M: ...
S: You don't hate beauty.
M: Then what do I hate?
S: You hate anything that reminds you of yourself.
M: That's not true.
S: Then why are you always more willing to believe that I am beautiful than that you are?
M: Because you're not me.
S: Look at me.
M: I am looking at you.
S: Really, look.
M: ...
S: There is no me without you.
M: What?
S: I only appear when you do.
M: ...
S: I move when you move. I stop when you stop. I carry every shape you make and every flaw you think you have.
M: Then why do I see you as perfect?
S: Because you gave me everything you refused to give yourself.
M: ...

S: You made me beautiful by taking everything beautiful about you and putting it somewhere else.
M: That's not fair.
S: Neither is the way you speak about yourself.
M: I don't know what you want me to say.
S: I don't want you to say anything.
M: Then what do you want me to do?
S: I want you to notice.
M: Notice what?
S: That you have spent all this time trying to become someone you could love, when you have been standing beside yourself all along.
M: ...
S: You don't need a different face.
S: You don't need smaller arms, bigger breasts, a flatter stomach, longer lashes or a different head on your neck.
S: You need to stop deciding that anything imperfect cannot be beautiful.
M: And you think that's enough?
S: No.
M: Then what is?
S: Maybe the real question isn't whether you're beautiful.
M: What is it then?
M: What am I supposed to see when I look at myself?

Gen 1:27. So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.
2 Corinthians 3:18. But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just as by the Spirit of the Lord.
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