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SUNDAY TWISTS ~ SEVEN DISTURBING DILEMMAS ~ S4E2 unraveled.
<blockquote><strong>SUNDAY TWISTS<br/>Where faith meets fresh perspective.</strong></blockquote><p><br/></p><p>MOUNT. FAMILY — THE UNRAVELING</p><p><br/></p><p>Last week, we asked:</p><p>What happens when honouring your parents appears to conflict with obeying God?</p><p><br/></p><p>Now, let's unravel it.</p><p><br/></p><p>First...</p><p>The foremost thing to consider is whether you actually heard God...</p><p>Are you sure?</p><p>Because before you make a life-changing decision and attach God's name to it, you must be willing to examine that conviction.</p><p><br/></p><p>Pray.</p><p>Search the Scriptures.</p><p>Seek mature, godly counsel.</p><p>Test what you believe you've heard.</p><p><br/></p><blockquote><strong>Because sometimes, what we call God's voice is simply our own desire wearing religious clothing.</strong></blockquote><p><br/></p><p>After you have thoroughly examined it and you truly believe God is leading you....</p><p><br/></p><p>Then comes the difficult part:</p><p><strong>Obedience</strong>.</p><p><br/></p><p>The Bible says:</p><p>“<strong>The king's heart is in the hand of the LORD...”</strong></p><p><strong>— Proverbs 21:1</strong></p><p><br/></p><p>So you don't have to manipulate your parents.</p><p>You don't have to force them to understand.</p><p>You don't have to compromise what you believe God is asking of you simply because you cannot yet see how everything will work out.</p><p><br/></p><p>The God who can turn the heart of a king can deal with the hearts of your parents.</p><p><br/></p><p>And David said:</p><p><strong>“When my father and my mother forsake me, then the LORD will take me up.”</strong></p><p><strong>— Psalm 27:10</strong></p><p>That's a painful possibility.</p><p>Because sometimes obedience to God may cost you the approval of people you love.</p><p><br/></p><p>But here's the question:</p><p>Would you rather lose the approval of your family or lose your obedience to God?</p><p><br/></p><p>Honour your parents.</p><p>Love your family.</p><p>But neither your parents nor your family can occupy the position that belongs to God in man's life</p><p><br/></p><p>And that brings us to the question someone raised from Numbers 30.</p><p>"Doesn't Numbers 30 give the father or husband authority over a woman's vow?"</p><p><br/></p><p>Yes—but context matters.</p><p>Numbers 30 was dealing specifically with vows and pledges of the Israelites.</p><p>It isn't a blanket declaration that a father or husband possesses unlimited authority over certain decisions a woman makes.</p><p>The father or husband was given authority to nullify a vow that the woman makes herself, but in this scenario... GOD'S verdict is what we're dealing with so it can't be rendered invalid.</p><p><strong><em><br/></em></strong></p><blockquote><strong><em>NB: Before you start thinking of "Gender Discrimination", this has already been treated in a previous season of Sunday Twists. You can read it for better understanding. (Season 2 Episode 10 Gender Twists)</em></strong></blockquote><p>And when interpreting Old Testament laws today, we cannot simply lift a passage out of its covenant context and apply it mechanically.</p><p><br/></p><p><strong>Jesus said:</strong></p><p><strong>“I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them.”</strong></p><p><strong>— Matthew 5:17</strong></p><p><br/></p><p>So we read the Old Testament through the fulfillment found in Christ, and we consider how the New Testament writers apply these principles to believers.</p><p>A verse can be correctly quoted and incorrectly applied.</p><p>That's why biblical interpretation requires more than finding a verse that appears to support our position.</p><p><br/></p><p>We must know the "Who", "when", "where" and the circumstances surrounding that passage.</p><p>We must also note how Christ fulfills it.</p><p>And how the apostles taught Christians to live it out</p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p>So...</p><p>Honour your parents.</p><p>But don't make them God.</p><p><br/></p><p>Love your family.</p><p>But don't make family your highest authority.</p><p><br/></p><p>And if you genuinely know God has spoken—</p><p>Obey Him.</p><p><br/></p><p>Not because obedience guarantees an easy road.— It will almost always not be easy.</p><p>Not because everyone will immediately understand.— You will seem mad to a lot.</p><p><br/></p><p>But because sometimes <strong><em>faithfulness means walking through a door before you can see what's on the other side.</em></strong></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p>Maybe one day your family will understand.</p><p>Maybe they won't!!</p><p><br/></p><p>But your responsibility was never to make everyone agree with God's instruction to you.</p><p>Your responsibility was to obey.</p><p><br/></p><p>And perhaps the biggest twist is this:</p><p>The question was never simply, “Will you choose your family or God?”</p><p><br/></p><p>It was:</p><p><br/></p><p>“When the two appear to be in conflict, have you truly heard God—and if you have, will you trust Him enough to obey?”</p><p><strong><br/></strong></p><blockquote><em><strong>PEACE✋😌🤚</strong></em></blockquote>

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