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Writewithoma Nigeria Fiction Author || Autofiction writer || Freelance writer || Content Creator @ National open university of Nigeria
In Sex and Sexuality • 2 min read •
How Do We Get to Cum, If Everything Is Against Us?
<blockquote>The spill and pill we aren't ready for.</blockquote><p><br/></p><p>Let me break it down.</p><p><br/></p><p>You want to cum? Fine. But first, let's talk about what you're up against.</p><p><br/></p><p>They say condoms cause cancer. Don't get me started, the comments can fight it out. And if you abstain, men get prostate cancer. Studies say so. So you can't hold it in either.</p><p><br/></p><p>Okay, so you go for it. Now you're negotiating with HIV, AIDS, genital warts, pregnancy or an unfaithful partner. Pick your poison.</p><p><br/></p><p>So you say, "Okay, no spill, no pill." Please. Residue precum is real, and that method is a gamble dressed up as a plan. Mishaps happen.</p><p><br/></p><p>Then there's the post-pill, which people treat like a casual errand. It fucks you up. Hormonal imbalance, cramps, a period that comes late or early or in a mood. Your body takes the hit for one night of pleasure.</p><p><br/></p><p>I feel the bodies of the females pay more than the males, which we don't get acknowledged for.. figure the facts, we rarely get to cum 🤦🏽 pathetic. </p><p><br/></p><p>Not everyone has the ability to make a woman cum, and when she finally does, she's pregnant. She's gonna be a mother 😂😂😂 She's either treating infections or whatnot, just something she never subscribed for.</p><p> </p><p>The acnes and the cramps of 7000 watts of uncummed spill, pill, hormonal unbalance. Just to find a cum to clear her stress off, but more stressed than she ever planned for.</p><p><br/></p><p>How really do we cum? If really this is what we face.</p><p><br/></p><p>And that's before we talk about our own heads. The to-do list that won't clock out. The stomach we're judging from this angle. </p><p><br/></p><p>The faking, the "I'm close" that isn't true. We were taught to be quiet about pleasure, so most of us never learned to ask for it.</p><p><br/></p><p>But here's what I know. Release doesn't come from effort. It comes from safety. Safe enough to say what works. Safe enough to slow down. Safe enough that nothing is being demanded of your body for a few minutes.</p><p><br/></p><p>So we get tested. We learn what our bodies like before we hand the map to someone else. And we choose people who are curious, not careless.</p><p><br/></p><p>Because pleasure is not the enemy. The recklessness around it is.</p><p><br/></p><p>Everything may be against us, but we still deserve to cum. We just have to be smarter about how we get there.</p><p><br/></p>

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