"Just a girl", "Soft girl era", "non-CHA-LANT" I'm sure we hear those phrases a lot.

Firstly "I'm just a girl" is it that people fail to realize being a girl doesn't diminish your capabilities?

Just as embracing feminity doesn't mean surrendering your independence.

Because you can be just a girl and at the same time be so much more.

I feel people just use that silly stupid phrase to escape accountability, work and decision making.

Instead of dealing with things we'd rather cover it up with "I'm in my soft girl era", "I'm just a girl", "I'm non-CHA-LANT".

And that's why i prefer working alone because tf is it time for our building practical and you're telling me you're just a girl.

You're telling me you cannot cut grass you're in your soft girl era.

I'm calling you you're telling me you're non-CHA-LANT.

If anybody talk am for this csp wey we wan do blood go flow.

Better come and hammer this plank before i break your head😒.

Also make nobody talk that thing near my side 😡.

Especially that non-CHA-LANT 😭😭😭😭.

You're non-CHA-LANT and so???

How the fuck did we turn not taking responsibility, not putting effort into anything, and nonchalance into an aesthetic?

Make nobody whine me 🙂‍↕️.

Sometimes people are genuinely laid back and that's fine.

You could care and not give a fuck that's fine.

But using nonchalance as a personality trait to avoid responsibility, accountability, decision making and even maturity.

I once knew someone who would shrug everything off and say I'm non-CHA-LANT.

Bro fawkk you.

And lastly sadly sef you're not non-CHA-LANT you're just not doing your part.

You can be soft, feminine, laid-back, unbothered, even lazy without making other people carry the responsibilities you abandoned😒.