I don't understand why people have a problem with other people choosing to be alone.
I feel like there is nothing wrong with choosing to be alone.
You could genuinely just enjoy your own company a lot.
There simply are choice you cannot make for people.
Not everyone who chooses solitude has a problem that needs fixing.
If your solitude gives you peace and you're not hurting anyone I don't see the problem.
Not everyone needs constant human connection to be happy.
We often interpret people's situations through our own needs.
Someone who is happiest when around people might not see why another person will be happiest alone.
They might interpret it as loneliness, sadness, trauma, arrogance.
Sure solitude can be a way to avoid pain and isolation can be very unhealthy.
But why do I owe being social to people just so I can prove I have a meaningful existence?
I love people but that doesn't mean I want every waking moment to be with them, around them or about them.
Why do we find other's behavior as unacceptable just because they don't align with our personal choices?
You don't like something doesn't mean the whole world has to bend to not liking it as well.
My way of socializing doesn't have to be same as yours, does it?
Because you would be unhappy living like that doesn't mean everyone will be😭😭.
And please don't tell me "humans are social creatures".
Your life doesn't have to require public validation to be deemed meaningful.
You don't have to be constantly surrounded by people to be deemed a happy person.
You don't have to always defend your personal preference that's why they're personal.
And your happiness doesn't have to be visible for it to be real.
Sometimes solitude is simply a choice and I think that's okay too.
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