<p style="text-align: center;">I came across a post about about attachment and it made me realize truly …</p><p><br/></p><p><img alt="" src="/media/inline_insight_image/IMG_6502.jpeg" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;"/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p>That sums it up… the fear of getting attached to something or someone who might not be worth everything you are, or you can give, or is willing to give. The constant lies and the manipulation of reality from your feelings. Knowing what is but choosing to ignore, cause of what feels like delight wrapped in sadness of your own happiness. The lies said like breathing, but better to live than suffocate. But you know the truth.</p><p>Maybe that's the hardest part not the leaving, but the waiting before it. The in-between where you already know, but you stay a little longer anyway, just to see if the truth will change its mind.</p><p><br/></p><p>It never does.</p><p><br/></p><p>And somewhere in that waiting, you start mistaking survival for love calling it patience when really it's just fear dressed up nicer. Fear of starting over. Fear of admitting the version of you that chose this wasn't foolish, just hopeful in the wrong direction.</p><p><br/></p><p>So you learn, slowly, painfully, that letting go isn't losing. It's just finally putting your hands somewhere they were always meant to be.</p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p>Attachment is never the problem, but to whom it was glued to in the process.</p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p>_ writewithoma, in response to nouman_noir<br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p>
At the end of the month, we give out prizes in 3 categories: Best Content, Top Engagers and
Most Engaged Content.
Best Content
Top Engagers
Most Engaged Content
Best Content
We give out cash prizes to between 7 and 20 community members with the best insights in the past month.
The winners are picked by an in-house selection process.
The winners are NOT picked from the leaderboards/rankings, we choose winners based on the quality, originality
and insightfulness of their content.
Here are a few other things to know for the Best Content track
1
Quality over Quantity — You stand a higher chance of winning by publishing a few really good insights across the entire month,
rather than a lot of low-quality, spammy posts.
2
Share original, authentic, and engaging content that clearly reflects your voice, thoughts, and opinions.
3
Avoid using AI to generate content—use it instead to correct grammar, improve flow, enhance structure, and boost clarity.
4
Explore audio content—high-quality audio insights can significantly boost your chances of standing out.
5
Use eye-catching cover images—if your content doesn't attract attention, it's less likely to be read or engaged with.
6
Share your content in your social circles to build engagement around it.
Top Engagers
For the Top Engagers Track, we award the top 3 people who engage the most with other user's content via
comments.
The winners are picked using the "Top Monthly Engagers" tab on the rankings page.
Most Engaged Content
The Most Engaged Content recognizes users whose content received the most engagement during the month.
We pick the top 3.
The winners are picked using the "Top Monthly Contributors" tab on the rankings page.
Contributor Rankings
The Rankings/Leaderboard shows the Top 20 contributors and engagers on TwoCents a monthly and all-time basis
— as well as the most active colleges (users attending/that attended those colleges)
The all-time contributors ranking is based on the Contributor Score, which is a measure of all the engagement and exposure a contributor's content receives.
The monthly contributors ranking tracks performance of a user's insights for the current month. The monthly and all-time scores are calcuated DIFFERENTLY.
This page also shows the top engagers on an all-time & monthly basis.
Below is a list of badges on TwoCents and their designations.