Why do African parents always feel the need to remind their female children that they are getting married.

Like....

Their children can be in the house and if there's something needed to be done the female child is always been summoned. And if she dares to complain, you'll start hearing things like ; Are you not a woman ? 

 Abi you don't know you'll soon go to your husband's house?

  Is this how you're going to behave ?

If she doesn't cook, Husband's house 

If she doesn't do dishes, Husband's house 

If she doesn't arrange stuffs, Husband's house 

If she complains, Husband's house 

If she sleeps too long, Husband's house 

If she wears what they don't like, Husband's house 

Any little mistake; Husband's house this 

 Husband's house that

Literally every thing she does she's reminded that she must get married.

I could even recall, my dad telling me that because I once talked back at him, that if I should try that in my husband's house, he will hit me 

Omo, that one just off me 🤨🤨😑

Hit who?????

Like...

Isn't marriage meant to be partnership??

Because me I nor con dey understand oo. 

What do you mean I'll be tired and because my husband has not eaten, I'll now in midst of all my tiredness go and cook for someone that can do it himself.

If you've entered Tiktok recently, that means you might have seen the woman "Blessing Okoro" who was already 5 centimeters dilated

Which means she was already in labourrrrrr!!!! 

And she left the hospital to go and cook jollof rice and plantain for her Chief corner stone, and to think of it, the so called husband was sleeping at HOME!!!!!!!

This is the highest form of ragebaiting everrrrr

That's not all oo 

You can go and search for it yourself tho

In my mind, I'm like "na wetin my papa say make I dey do for husband house????? "

Because what the actual fuckkk

Why do women even keep normalizing suffering when there's already so much going on inside our Bodies.

It is well oo