Why the fight 🤷 - by Drizzleeagle

Communication is the media of relating a message from one person to another, which can be vocal, signs and even as a letter. We have an effective communication and ineffective communication we have different types of communication, this is to make us understand that it is not every communication is effective, most important part of communication is the effective part of communication, when a communication is ineffective the message is under probability but the communication that is effective is the one they will achieve it's target. Why the fight among people is because of the misunderstanding in communication. Most times when I see two people or more arguing among themselves over a certain topic when you listen very attentively you will discover that they are saying the same thing in different angles the problem is because they lack the understanding , so when a message is passed and the receiver lacks the understanding of the message automatically the message becomes ineffective and this is where there is fight, because the communication haven't achieve it's target it can only achieve a target when the understanding is given to the receiver, then how should they make one understand, you must check his mental ability his capacity in reasoning to know the language, the formula, and the style to use as to pass an effective message, the way you communicate with a child in secondary school and he understands you shouldn't be the same way you communicate with a child in primary school or why because their understanding and their thinking capacity and the ability in reasoning is not the same. Most times wrong judgment occurs because of lack of communication some judgment was given based on insinuation, and based on what your instinct is telling you which is 99% different from what the victim is planning to do or is trying to let you know most times the best way for effective communication is given an audience asking sensible questions to the part of the message that is still unclear to you then allow the fellow to explain with a proper explanation proper understanding will be given, therefore in time of communication is not time of argument is not time of fight, it is not time of quarrel is not time of shouting, is time of fair hearing hearing and sensible response to every point . When your understanding refuses to align with the point the opponent is making, it causes a lot of chaos. In conclusion: there shouldn't be fight among Us if we can understand ourself, if we can get every point in a message and give a proper response that align with the point in the message, this is what we call effective communication. Thanks for reading and don't forget to drop your comment 🤗 Sign out D.E

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